Self-judgement; it sucks and is useless and generally bad for you.
Maybe you’re judging yourself for not cooking, but a lot of otherwise functional people can’t cook or simply don’t want to after a busy or tiring day. Enjoy your easy dinner!
Maybe you’re judging yourself for eating a cheap meal on your own, but not every day can be a big party or expensive feast. Don’t compare yourself to other people, especially when so much of what people depict on social media is misleading or exaggerated. It’s fine to eat on your own (loneliness is a separate issue) and it’s good to save money or live within your means.
Maybe you’re judging yourself for eating something that you know is low quality or unhealthy, but health and fitness are much more about long term behavior patterns than any single day. As long as we’re trying to be active and eat healthy on a regular basis there’s nothing wrong with occasional junk food.
Anyway, the point is this: if you feel bad or depressed about something as small as what you’re eating for dinner, it might be a sign of deeper problems with depression and self-judgment. And if you find yourself judging yourself, it can be very helpful in my experience to really think about why you’re doing it, whether it’s a reasonable critique, and whether you’d judge someone else for doing the same thing in your shoes.
You probably wouldn’t judge someone else for eating a microwave dinner, so why judge yourself?
Self-judgement; it sucks and is useless and generally bad for you.
Maybe you’re judging yourself for not cooking, but a lot of otherwise functional people can’t cook or simply don’t want to after a busy or tiring day. Enjoy your easy dinner!
Maybe you’re judging yourself for eating a cheap meal on your own, but not every day can be a big party or expensive feast. Don’t compare yourself to other people, especially when so much of what people depict on social media is misleading or exaggerated. It’s fine to eat on your own (loneliness is a separate issue) and it’s good to save money or live within your means.
Maybe you’re judging yourself for eating something that you know is low quality or unhealthy, but health and fitness are much more about long term behavior patterns than any single day. As long as we’re trying to be active and eat healthy on a regular basis there’s nothing wrong with occasional junk food.
Anyway, the point is this: if you feel bad or depressed about something as small as what you’re eating for dinner, it might be a sign of deeper problems with depression and self-judgment. And if you find yourself judging yourself, it can be very helpful in my experience to really think about why you’re doing it, whether it’s a reasonable critique, and whether you’d judge someone else for doing the same thing in your shoes.
You probably wouldn’t judge someone else for eating a microwave dinner, so why judge yourself?