Not when did you come out, that’s a whole different story, but when did you know you were a gay bro?
I’ve always been excited by other guys, I remember being very young (like 7/8) and getting a bit too into the wrestling. My parents turned it off 😩
I was around 13 when someone said something about ‘gay’ and I learned it was a whole thing. It was like a light bulb moment and a bunch of things instantly made sense. And that was it, came out to some friends not long after and that was it.
How about you guys?
I mean it can do I suppose, it sounds like it’s changed how you see yourself a bit perhaps?
I like that saying ‘the people who matter don’t mind, and the people who mind don’t matter’ in those situations.
I’m sure you’ll find a way to be unafraid one day, maybe see if there are any LGBTQ+ orgs near you that can give you some support or a place to talk?