Is there a way to figure out if they blocked youon Signal if you can still technically message them?

Edit: he seems to have blocked me or hasn’t used Signal since a single emphatically non-controversial/non-hurtful comment so he either blocked me or hasn’t opened Signal for >month. He’s not responding to anything else either so he’s either depressed or blocked+done with me.

Edit: I’ll know when it comes birthday time. I’m not a Bridezilla about birthdays but it would be unusual for him to not wish me one. He’s never not done so. I’ll have my answer when that happens 🙏 (namaste) If he wants to be a dick about it and leave me in the dark totally those days are fortunatley numbered :/

Edit: we’re white and very (North)-American.

  • A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    10 months ago

    I don’t wanna cause any undue paranoia but it might be worth looking back on anything that might have offended or hurt your friend that you might not have realized.

    I once had a friend that was gaslighting me about his attempts to cozy up to my girlfriend / childhood friend and “accidentally” touching her inappropriately after I told him in no uncertain terms that I wasn’t comfortable with it and didn’t trust him. Eventually, in a drug induced grandiose rant, he admitted my suspicions were correct the whole time, and afterwards he refused to apologize because he didn’t believe he did anything wrong. So I ghosted him.

    I’m not saying it’s likely you did anything that horrible to your friend without knowing, but I am saying my best friend firmly believed he had done nothing wrong and maybe it’s worth considering or reconsidering the last month or two of events leading up to him ghosting you.