I’ll start, people I talk on Discord with know more of my music preference than IRL people I meet with, because rejection sensitivity i guess

    • Guadin@k.fe.derate.me
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      6 months ago

      Exactly. And that’s where all the interest for our information comes from. Because it almost feels like you’re writing to yourself and all recipients are anonymous, you spill a lot.

      I was the same. I shared a lot of (personal) stuff. Now I try to be a bit more thoughtful about it. If people would find out who I am, would I be comfortable with the things I shared. And can the things I share be compiled to something that points towards me? And then I decide if I still want to post it.