New rules: you can live in whatever country you want to.

Also you should consider that to some, there is a clear preference in gender, but for others this type of decision just doesnt carry much weight.

For me, the question actuallybecomesz: would I rather be ugly or attractive.

While there are problems with being too attractive, it seems a clear choice. We all tend to try to be our best selves, rather than our worst, and for most their best self is relatively clean and orderly, or at least intentional. Noone wants to be universally unnatractive