The amount of time spent caged and the amount of time since the last (full) penile orgasm are two aspects of chastity that can be practiced together or separately. Here’s how I experience them. I’m curious if others feel the same or different 😘
For me, the amount of time since my last (full) penile orgasm affects my horniness a lot, particularly feminine/ submissive/ attraction to cocks and men type of horniness. I’ve heard that this usually peaks around 3 weeks.
The amount of time spent caged is mostly a sissy/sub/femme symbolic affirmation and way I like looking, like wearing thongs or a bra, or painting my nails. However, when I get horny and feel tempted to play with things I shouldn’t, having a cage can feel like a safety blanket. And, on a meta level, I get a lot of pleasure out of realizing how safe and peaceful I feel through this really sissy thing of having my clitty in a cage, more secure(d) in my commitment to not use my clitty as a dick 🥰
That said, I don’t have a keyholder. If you have a keyholder who can enforce the chastity (e.g., piercing), that’d be a true, (blissfully) submissive giving over of control
It hasn’t been very long since I bought myself a cage, and I don’t cage myself regularly (yet!) or that often. Basically only when I want to dress up, or edge myself for a bit.
I agree on the keyholder part. I get way too impatient way too quickly, and end up touching myself to orgasm. Maybe if I had a keyholder or someone in command over me, I could edge myself properly. Or I could even be forced to spend weeks in chastity and finally learn how to orgasm with my prostate.
I guess one can always dream :)
That’s a fun way to use chastity too ☺️ It sounds like you use it to complete your look when you dress up and help your edging sessions. Do you use a vibrator on your cage - is that how edging and caging go together?
I too dream for weeks caged and chaste at the mercy of a partner 🥰 I’m trying long-term self-imposed chastity at the moment (more so abstinence from penile stimulation than time caged), and it’s tough!! I’m at 3.5 weeks at the moment and I can use all the encouragement I can get 😘