• SassyRamen@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    I have never met a trans person and I’ve only known about 3 gay people personaly… so why are they in every source of media?

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      5 minutes ago

      I used to think that. But the amount of people hiding it, or just coping, is probably higher than you think.

      Like I live in a pretty small city with an average gay community, and all it took was one person coming out as trans for a bunch of others to go “oh you know what me too - let’s do this,” so now we have like a whole posse of trans men that I see at the gym all the time (with their gains and their cool names lol).

      I’m not saying this is always the case by any stretch, but if someone is super butch or super femme, they might not be cis.

    • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      1 hour ago

      I thought I’d never meet a trans person and very few gay people in the agricultural college I attended when I went back to college. Turned out every damn one of the friends I made was somewhere on the LGBTQ spectrum. So as the other person said “as far as you know”

      Acceptance of gay and trans rights has allowed so many people to realize they’re not so straight or not so cisgender and that’s wonderful. People are finally finding the freedom to be who they are!

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        18 minutes ago

        I support their rights, they are people, the genitals only mader in bed. I just don’t want aliens in the far future watching our shows and thinking “god damn, it was femboy paradies!”

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      2 hours ago

      It’s part of an effort to normalize seeing it. I think it’s probably good, but it’s just a bit unrealistic sometimes and feels very forced. ':)