So, hear me out.
I’m a 47 year old guy and I’m not ashamed to say that I enjoy video games. I always have, from playing Head over Heels on a Speccy +2 to ESO and Valorant on my self built PC.
Due to various life circumstances, I’m also on the dating scene and to most women I meet, around my age, video games are anathema. When I say that I like them it’s usually meet with an “oh dear” or a “my son would probably love to talk to you about them, I find them really boring”
I have two boys, both teenagers, both play all the time and sometimes we all play together (although they are better as they have more time to apply to games). Their friends are amazed that I will talk about games with them, that I know someone about games and that I play games. None of their parents want to talk with them about what is effectively their main hobby that they do all the time (big sad).
So the question, there must be some sort of cut off age at which video games are no longer an acceptable pastime. Is it absolute age based (nothing after 35) or is it something to do with the progression of games into popular culture and people born after, say, 1986 will not see it as unacceptable?
I don’t have an answer, I just think it’s an interesting question. Thanks for reading, let me know what you think!
Edit to add: I’m not planning on stopping through peer pressure, just wondering about the phenomenon!
I’m 41 and not only do I play games everyday I also develop them. My girlfriend enjoys the fact that I play games. When we aren’t together a lot of the time I will stream them and most of the time she’s my only viewer lol
She is very supportive and encouraged me to do things that are fun.
Honestly, if the women you are meeting aren’t supportive of your hobbies and what you enjoy doing to relax, then trust me when I say you don’t want anything to do with them. These women are telling you who they are, believe them and steer clear.
This is exactly it. Don’t give up on what you love to meet someone’s out of touch expectations. It will make you resent them and will create toxicity in the relationship. Find someone who supports you and ideally participate in your hobbies.