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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • I just use reddit for basic news on specific products I’m looking forward to, and the occasional time I need to search a specific question on it.

    After trying out Lemmy, I used a script to delete mass edit/delete all my stuff in reddit, deleted the account, and never went back. I find no enjoyment in commenting on reddit anymore so it was an easy decision.

    I agree Lemmy has a long way to go, but I only see it getting better from here which is enough for me to stick with it.

    Now that you mention it though, communities do kinda feel empty. Not as in a lack of users/content, but that theres nothing in them that try to promote discussion like “weekly discussions” you would see on reddit. Its more or less entirely some random post by someone, or a news post.

    As someone who only cares about news and the discussion around that news, Lemmy satisfies me pretty well. But for people who want a more social experience (probably most people), Lemmy begins to fall apart quickly.

    Right now, I think the memes community is really the only active social one.







  • You will get downvoted in any disagreement, that’s not exclusive to reddit or Lemmy, that happens in any social media with downvotes.

    The purpose of downvotes is to show what the general people in that common section think about your comment. You shouldn’t give any hoot about it other than the info it provides.

    Obviously, if you are talking in controversal topics or ones with conflicting sides, you are gonna see alot of downvotes. Its just people expressing their opinion.

    Echo chambers are just a natural part of communities. People often come to feel validated so they stick to ones with the same thoughts as them. I don’t recommend trying to argue/discuss with people who only want to “win” cuz there’s nothing to gain.

    Talk with those who argue because they want to learn or understand something better. (or perhaps help you learn something new)


  • Pretty much any trait that awful people usually have. I feel these kind of people are pretty easy to spot usually.

    Lacking basic manners, can’t be bother to do small things that can help others, greedy to a point that hurts other and is OK with that, only looks at people as tools/resources, only argues to win instead of to teach/learn, and the list goes on forever.

    It becomes a lot harder to despise people if they don’t have any of the usual awful person traits.

    I do hate it when people ask to ask though, that always annoys me to no end. Just tell me what you need help with lol



  • Built my first pc in 2020 in windows 10, tried ubuntu for a couple of months but stopped cuz it was unstable and was hurting my productivity.

    Switched back to windows 10 through 2021. I did tried ubuntu again for a little bit, but it was just not working out for me. And then earlier in 2022, I tried linux mint and outside of needing to follow an extra step to properly boot with my Nvidia gpu, everything worked out of the box for me and I had a superior experience compare to windows. More stable and I also strongly prefer the UI.

    I still love linux mint but I am thinking about trying fedora for the KDE experience. No issues in mint, but my time in linux makes me curious and want to see what else I been missing.



  • Its definitely a mindset thing. In any game with any sort of competition, the majority of people seem to have this thought that “I must win”. And if they dont, then they are having a bad time.

    I notice this alot in smash specifically when I play with new players, they put all this emotion into matches with nothing on the line. Then beat themselves over every loss.

    I even get questions like “Why you did this dumb thing?” which sometimes leads them to thinking im trolling. Like bro, im playing for fun.

    Or if im not sweating 24/7, “Are you sandbagging?” Dude, we are playing friendlies, this is not a tourney that decides my future career, its not that serious.

    Its like people forgot what casual gaming was.


  • Casual multiplayer games still exist, but are pretty rare these days. Stuff like left 4 dead, minecraft survival, and halo minigame maps are all very casual. I would think VR multiplayer games are probably casual too but I never got into it lol

    If you hate any social interaction with randoms at all tho, then I would still avoid those probably.