Hypno is the go to

I’ll take the money and change the title on my resume anyway

Use your own job titles. Change them every time you apply match what the company wants.

Your only mistake here is honesty.

This is spam fuckin quit it

The trap with dropping too quickly is you have no overheard to absorb bursts of demand

Honestly those repost bots are an absolute cancer and shouldn’t be allowed. The ones that post links directly to the posts on Reddit are particularly egregious and fucking stupid.

When you say you feel like you hit a wall, how deep are we talking? When you use lube, are you applying it directly to the toy, inserting it via an applicator or something, or both?

Anal is largely mental partially physical. You have to train yourself to relax and stretch. Inserting lube inside you is also a big help. Lubing up a toy directly makes it easier, but you’re still fighting unlubed skin until you’ve penetrated yourself far enough to spread it around, and it’s almost never enough just in the toy.

Use an egregious amount of lube. Like, tons of it. Get a large syringe, fill it with lube, and squirt it inside you. You literally cannot use too much.

For me, i hit a ‘wall’ at about 5-6in inside me that requires me to focus, relax, and position myself so my insides align to allow me to take it deeper. Positioning training is good for this- what positions work best are different for everyone.

Anyway that was a mind dump, let me know if you have any other questions, and to to the Lemmy sissy community 🥰

Honestly she’s incredible. I’ve never been this emotionally deep in submission to someone before. I dom on occasion, but she’s encouraging me to go online and find another don that can help keep me in check(I have an ultra-high sex drive), as well as possibly dominate her/both us in the future.

Oh lord… 42 I think

What was the first time sucking cock like?

Listen to your body love ❤️ we’d all love to see

Hi Cara! Welcome to our little community, I’m glad you’re here 😋

When you weren’t in your sissy phase, what did you find yourself drawn towards? I’ve gone through similar phases of being super into being a sissy, then losing interest for a while, then back to it again.

We knew each other for several years before we ever dated or had sex. When we started getting close I was in the process of recovering from a bad breakup, and she was traveling through town every so often for work. She asked if she could stay with me one time when coming though, she slept on my couch, we drank and smoked a hung out. I didn’t really think there was a chance of anything with us so I didn’t try to pursue anything.

Eventually one night we got really drunk(a whole bottle of Jameson IPA), one thing leads to another, and we had sex. Sloppy, drunk, vanilla sex.

When we initially started sleeping together I was typically the dominant partner, in fact that’s what she went for. We have a pretty extreme switch dynamic now, but for the first year or so we explored mostly her being submissive. She wanted to experience being dominated, CNC, impact play, the whole nine yards. And I performed. I made her a cumdump for me. Once, we went camping and I came in her at least 2-3 times a day for the entire trip.

All that being said when we first got together, I told her I was a switch and I had a heavy submissive streak that had been an issue with previous partners. She said she would be willing to explore it with me like I’ve done for her with all of her fantasies.

The sorta twist to the story is that hey, it turns outs that having a dominant, uncontrollably horny partner is fun to her when she wants to be used- but that’s not how she feels all the time. For her, submission is a purely sexual experience, in the moment. She loves to be pounded into sub space against her will.

For me, submission is a constant. I worship her. I adore her. I live for her. I feel the constant compulsion to serve and to please her. These traits are amplified so fucking much by chastity and orgasm control. And she loves that. She loves that her not being in the mood and leaving me denied and twitching in my cage is just… How it works if that’s what she wants.

So we started gradually approaching switching our dynamic. There were some bumps, we got it wrong sometimes. My biggest lesson so far is that my focus can’t be on the fantasy itself, on being sissified and caged and giving up complete control. It has to be entirely on her. I don’t think about when I’ll be unlocked next, I think how grateful I am to experience the lust I feel for her, because it comes from my love for her. When I’m twitching in my cage watching videos of how I used to fuck her when we first got together, I feel so incredibly horny, but more than anything I feel my love and devotion for her in my chest.

Truthfully we’re still exploring this dynamic. I’ve been posting about it pretty regularly since I’ve been locked in indefinite chastity, so keep an eye out for updates lol.

Hehe we are! I use toys on her regularly, but even with all of our kinkiness we still love the intimacy of me being inside her, filling her up with cum. The ritual of aftercare/cleaning/relocking me is in place to maintain our dynamic while still allowing us to have sex normally 🥰

All of that being said, there’s been discussion of cuckolding me so she can get that fix from someone else, but idk how far were going to go down that road.

I’m so greedy lol, I want to be able to Sissygasm so bad but I can’t go without playing with my cock forever lol. My partner and I are switches, so she likes to play a game sometimes where she will unlock me and tease me until I ‘lose control’ and dick her down.

Of course I always am re-locked, if not immediately after then usually by the next morning.

Honestly, it felt so so good but it left me hornier than I was to begin with. Like a ruined orgasm but without the emotional drop.

Heheh thank you I’m very excited I feel like I got over a block. Now I can stay caged even more! 🥰

I kinda forgot about it tbh

Yeah my mistress put a rule in place that I can never waste my cum. If I cum in her, I have to eat it out of her. If I cum on myself I have to scoop it up with my fingers and moan while I eat it all, sometimes giving myself a facial.

She wants to condition me to crave cum even when I’m in my refractory period.

Post-refractory conditioning is extremely effective imo. Particularly things like cum eating.