University of Oklahoma has an organization and there are probably more at other colleges in the state. I can attest to the difficulties of online dating. There may also be LGBTQ resources in your town or nearby, like a social gathering at a community center or something.

Replace him with a suitable substitute on some dating platform. If you’re in a major city, that shouldn’t be difficult. If you’re out in the sticks like I am, alcohol may be your only friend. Maybe get a job or attend a college in a place where gays can be gay.

You should definitely grow your hair out too, if you aren’t dealing with male pattern baldness. And paint your nails. Real sissies are in sissy mode all the time.

Women’s shirts tend to fit the torso better than the loose cut of most men’s shirts. There are different types (blouses, knits, crop tops) but they’re all mixed together in the same section at the thrift store. It also helps to wear colorful socks. Don’t forget hair clips, which serve the practical purpose of keeping hair out of your face. I have a set of 20 little colorful clips that look like flowers when I arrange them in my hair, and it only takes 5 minutes.

To be the webcam on that netbook <3

At first I thought this was a post for indie gamers/devs to find specific sissy training games, and I was surprised to hear that Nintendo released one. Oh, if only.

I had a recent fling with a chastity bottom who played Elden Ring and stuff, but that probably means he’s not a real sissy.

I recommend the Barbie Horse Adventures series, available for Game Boy Advance, Nintendo DS, PlayStation 2, Windows, Wii, and Xbox. I also personally enjoy the Princess Maker series (though that targets a broader demographic) - available for PC, PS2, PSP, Switch, and mobile.

You don’t need to patronizingly explain what a munch is. I’ve observed these people over several months, and 4/5 of them are nowhere near hardcore kinksters. I don’t know where you’re from, but around here the general culture is already very soft and removed from the scene. These people want to feel no pain.

1. Yes, there is a fairly well-known fetish club in the city. It would have to be a weekend trip. I’d probably find mostly straight people though. I met a previous (female) partner in a similar way. It was a great relationship, but there was always this feeling that I was more hardcore into kink stuff than she was. I just can’t dial it down for those whose interest is more moderate.
2. Femboy psychology is a whole ball of yarn. Do I really want to date anyone who presents effeminate? I’m into it to an extent, but not when it compromises the hard sadomasochism. If those things are opposed to each other (as you say they’re introverts) then I might be an exception. I wish people wouldn’t be such pussies.

Ideally? A dominant femboy. More broadly, I’m looking for someone about 25-35 who appreciates BDSM dynamics, looks healthy, and doesn’t mind shaving.

Neither have I! Have you had a good experience on the other services?

An hour by train gets me to a major city. However, the gay scene there is just a slightly scaled-up version of the backwoodsy culture I’m already in. Most guys are actual baby boomers. Most will say “Oh, you live in [town]? Why?” Fucking income levels, bro.

I feel you on the local kink scene. The couples here aren’t even looking for thirds. People go to these meetings just to play pool, and they act like the sex drive has been sucked out of them by some kind of alien parasite. Tops act like bottoms, bottoms act like tops, everyone either has kids or is some kind of little. The only hard tops are bears. 🐻

There is a major city an hour away. Thanks for the list. Any reason you didn’t include Scruff? Fetlife isn’t for dating. Growlr and Barq aren’t for me (not into bears, not a furry). Sniffies and Grindr are hookup sites, so that’s kinda my last resort. I’m on Recon right now but it’s all dead ends.

May I ask, why are you posting on the sissies board if you have so much internalized homophobia to call LGBT stuff “hype”?

I’m not transfem, I just crossdress sometimes. And also, I would sooner date a transgirl than a cis girl any day of the week. I’m not straight, and what you’re saying only applies to straight people, and even then only the homophobic variety.

What standards? I literally just want a boy in the ballpark of my own age and interests. Should I really hook up with guys older than my parents for a few extra bucks? You must be into some hardcore humiliation.

I pulled them off to make Unix jewelry

The sad reality is that when you look at the files being requested, it’s usually scrapers looking for exploits.

When you bring threads into it, these exotic features make more sense. I have been doing single-threaded stuff for the most part.

I just never learned smart pointers and write C++ code like it’s C for aesthetic reasons.