love it. Red is such an awesome colour. ❤️

Love it! good luck 😉 I wish I could take such great photos ❤️🤣

it is pretty awesome. but i also have the disappointment of having to change back at the end of the day. While my partner is aware of it, I’m not at the point of being “out” so similar to you it all goes away before the kiddo gets home.

finding your moments to indulge/experiment/be comfortable is important.

Not at all. This is one of the many advantages I have from being able to work from home. I think I might go crazy without the opportunity now days.

heh. thanks ☺️ I think doing some googling on posing will definitely help. That page is helpful, but um yeah… that site has some interesting biases. Though reading the FAQ I’m am somewhat “impressed” by the author’s honesty 😆

appreciate the thoughts and info. yeah, definitely to tight for more than a couple of hours of wear.

I think I will just take the plunge on trying some stuff from cherrykeeper. i have a ring sizing set of theirs already. so it’s just time to go for it.

i’ll probably share some stuff around here as i go. thanks heaps.

yeah, i’ve tried vaseline and other anti chafing creams. but i just seem to struggle with how much i pull in at times.

Sounds like trying out cherry with a larger ring and the headlock feature you mention might be the best bet.

i haven’t tried metal. didn’t want to spend that much money until i could get the sizing right first.

I wish I could get a full day wear, with all the standard cages i’ve tried the best i can get is a few hours before the ring rubbing becomes a problem.

I’m sort of in a similar usage situation as you but with my own motivations. mostly look and feel.

trying to justify the costs of the cherry keeper at the moment. i’m hoping their larger ring sizes will work without being loose and pointless.

love it! i’m still on the hunt for something that fits well enough for longer term wear too. good luck!

do you have someone to hold the key, or just having fun yourself?