I believe many, but not all, sissies like to have sex with women (i.e., aren’t exclusively 100% attracted to cock). Some may like to do it ‘as a guy’ versus as a sissy. I’ve been asking myself this question. And thought I’d try to spark some convo here ☺️ Your answers don’t need to map 100% to the question, just use it for inspiration
So, I guess my sissy journey is a little different than most because my partner and I are both switches. I’m kept in chastity most of the time now, but sometimes we’ll have a night where I’m allowed to be released and do whatever I want to mommy- just to be caged back up and possibly punished depending on what was done.
That sounds incredibly hot. You’re really hitting the nail on the head of what I was trying to get at. To sound really clinical: primarily engaging one’s primary fantasies while not neglecting secondary ones. I think with a woman I’d like a dynamic where I’m not 100% sub/bottom, but it’s probably >90%. Anyway, I’m happy for you and your partner (or mommy)! It sounds like you have a really nice sex life and I’d be happy to hear more any time :)
We’ve considered posting in the communities here so keep an eye on my profile lol
The sissy concept, and my exploration of it, has helped me appreciate that nothing gets me hotter than being submissive and feminine in a sexual context, and I don’t think being with a woman would change that. For example, I find reverse pegging, pussy-in-vagina (PIV)-free relationships, and cuckolding really hot. However, I think it probably makes sense to use my penis for PIV sex too, both for mine and my partner’s satisfaction
I’m only into women/trans women. I didn’t know until recently that the term for this is apparently called being gynesexual (being interested in the female form/femininity).
I think my ultimate fetish would be to have a woman dominate over me. Humiliation and degradation are quite big turn ons for me, and they align quite well with the sissy concept. I’m not a very feminine looking person, but if they can make me feel very feminine, I think that would be the biggest turn on.
She can keep my dick caged for as long as she wants :) Who knows? Maybe if I’m a good sissy, she’ll let it out every once in a while and let me put it inside her!
For the last several months, I’ve thought that submitting to a women would be my greatest fantasy. However, lately, all I can think about is cock. I took a look at some strap-on content last night, and to my surprise I was like, “nope this is not as good as a nice big cock.” I guess I still have a split where I think women’s bodies are overall sexier, but a big cock is the sexiest body part there is. But these are just abstract fantasies. IRL, either a dominant woman or a guy with a big cock as a partner would suit me fine :)
The concepts of femdom, humiliation, and degradation are interesting, because they’re quite vague or open-ended, and what I mean by humiliation may not be what others mean, etc. I really like affirmation, like being called a good girl or encouraged to be feminine and sissy.
My ideal femdom flavour, I think, is pretty vanilla. I don’t really want to lick toes, but I want her to be in control of me and my orgasm, and I want our sex life to totally revolve around her pleasure. I don’t know if that makes me more of a psychological sub. I think I’d only like light humiliation, about wanting to be a sissy and not being a ‘real’ man. Being told I have a small clitty, reverse pegging, cuckolding, being spanked, having sissy sex filmed or in front of others. I think the only thing I might consider degradation that I might like is being locked in a big cage while being cuckolded 🤤