There’s actually a dom gap because of the amount of effort that goes into being a good active partner in bdsm.
Absolutely right. It’s one of the reasons I have to vet potential sub partners carefully. I’m very tired of doing all the planning work only to have someone flake at the last minute. I’m long done with casual hookups. Especially the “discreet” crowd.
It’s like being a DM playing out a scenario or situation.
Oh my god it totally is, I never thought about it that way.
Whoa, let’s not get carried away! I don’t want friends and family to know I’m into any of that weird stuff. I can’t imagine trying to look any of them in the eye when they know all about how I’m into that depraved passtime, keeping tight control of others in a dark room late at night, making them bend to my will.
I’m fine with them knowing about my kinky sex life though.
Absolutely right. It’s one of the reasons I have to vet potential sub partners carefully. I’m very tired of doing all the planning work only to have someone flake at the last minute. I’m long done with casual hookups. Especially the “discreet” crowd.
Oh my god it totally is, I never thought about it that way.
And you don’t even need to change the name! Dungeon master/mistress
Whoa, let’s not get carried away! I don’t want friends and family to know I’m into any of that weird stuff. I can’t imagine trying to look any of them in the eye when they know all about how I’m into that depraved passtime, keeping tight control of others in a dark room late at night, making them bend to my will.
I’m fine with them knowing about my kinky sex life though.